Introducing Your New Partner to Your Parents

Falling in love is an incredible experience. The hours of phone calls, completing each other’s sentences, and the butterflies when you're together create a perfect feeling. Life seems just right. As the holiday season approaches, there's often a heightened desire to share your special someone with your family for the first time.

However, before envisioning a future together, you face the task of introducing your new partner to your parents. Gulp (or you don't have to... that's a topic for another blog post).

Undeniably, introducing a new partner to parents can be nerve-wracking. What if they don’t like your new girlfriend? What if your boyfriend doesn’t like them?

Here are some suggestions for making that first meeting as smooth and peaceful as possible:

Get Them Primed:

Parents are more likely to give your new partner a chance if they know the relationship is serious. Share photos and stories about how you met, recent dates, etc. When parents see the importance of this person to you, they'll approach the meeting with an open mind and heart.

Draft Your Siblings:

If you have siblings, introduce your partner to them first. Keep it casual; there's no need to make it a big deal. Take your S.O. when you visit your brother to pick up golf clubs or ask your sister to join you for a quick diner stop. Your siblings' positive reactions can influence your parents.

Chill:

Ensure your new partner doesn’t feel like they're going for a job interview. If they sense your anxiety, it will affect their ability to be themselves. Stay relaxed, and they will feel at ease.

Remember, your parents love you and want what's best for you. While they might not warm up immediately, understand that their ultimate desire is for your happiness. So, take a deep breath, and enjoy the process. Reach out to us for more on relationship therapy.